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Understanding the Key Blocks
Today, let's delve into the three significant barriers to achieving wealth, success, and happiness that I've identified in both my personal experiences and those I've encountered globally.
Shame: The First Major Barrier
What exactly is shame? It manifests as feelings of:
- Being broken or fundamentally flawed
- Not measuring up or lacking talent
- Unworthiness of your desires
- Insignificance compared to others
Shame often leads to subordinating yourself to others, believing your sole purpose is to serve their needs. It's a persistent fear that undermines self-trust and confidence, leaving you feeling incapable of achieving your desires.
Lack of Clarity: The Second Block
The second major hurdle is a lack of clarity regarding what you truly want in your health, wealth, and relationships. Many people struggle to articulate their desires, often responding with uncertainty when asked, "What do you want?" This lack of understanding directly impedes your ability to attain those goals.
Inspired and Courageous Action: The Third Barrier
The final barrier is the inability to take inspired and courageous action. This includes the fear of rejection and the reluctance to leave your current situation for a potentially better future. Without taking steps forward, you remain stagnant.
Recognizing the Path Forward
When you realize that shame, lack of clarity, and the absence of courageous action are what hold you back, you can begin to break free from these constraints. The only reason you're settling for a life that feels obligatory instead of one filled with possibilities is due to these barriers.
Once you confront these challenges, you can unlock a life filled with greater freedom and fulfillment. Wealth, success, and happiness are your inherent rights, and the only thing preventing you from attaining them is your choice to remain where you are.
About the Author
Mike Kitko is an executive self-mastery coach, speaker, and author dedicated to helping individuals achieve increased success and happiness. With a background as a Marine and an MBA, Mike has held executive roles in Fortune 500 companies but often felt like an imposter. His journey through personal struggles, including alcoholism and emotional turmoil, has led him to discover genuine success and happiness, which he now aims to share with others.