How to Make Friends and Not Repulse Women — Part One

“Avoid Being a Jerk”

The notion of chivalry is not a relic of the past; it's vibrant and appealing, and you can embody it as well. The classic hero didn’t seek sexual rewards for rescuing others; he acted out of a sense of decency, which is far more attractive than being an online troll who shirks accountability.

The metaphorical knight likely didn’t wrestle with balancing personal duties and online bravado, but the idea of “put up or shut up” has stood the test of time. The anonymity of the web has emboldened insincere individuals while causing genuine people to doubt themselves.

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#### How to Win Friends and Attract Women

The first piece of advice is straightforward: Avoid being a jerk.

It really is that simple. By treating others with kindness, respect, and compassion, you’ll be surprised at how much your life can change, making it easier to find genuine intimacy.

Common sense and personal hygiene are readily available but often overlooked by those who would benefit from them the most.

Don’t be a jerk.

It’s important to note that possessing male anatomy does not inherently make someone unpleasant. However, some men seem to need a reminder to reassess their behavior, as if they believe being an arrogant jerk is a unique talent.

No one requires another self-proclaimed overlord flaunting around like a peacock on steroids.

Chivalry yields better social responses than ignorance and entitlement—though it may garner fewer clicks. You must choose what you value more and prioritize accordingly.

No, They Shouldn’t Be “Allowed” to Target Men

The term Incel was initially coined by a woman, but it has been weaponized by some Republicans to target isolated young men. By pushing self-defeating, anger-fueled narratives, they undermine an entire generation.

That evening, she penned her thoughts on a private blog: “Like a scientist who invented a dangerous weapon, I cannot take back this term nor limit its usage to those with good intentions.”

Men are often targeted due to their financial vulnerabilities and voting patterns.

If you seek real solutions instead of just empty promises—you’re in the right place.

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What’s Inside Will Surface

After eight long years of Trump’s administration and its distortions of truth, the world has had enough of disingenuous narratives. But don’t despair, my friend, for the power to be a hero lies within you. So don your cape and show the world what authentic behavior looks like!

A wise mentor once told me, “What’s in the well comes up in the bucket.”

This might seem like an obvious statement, but to change your circumstances, you must first understand your true self.

Consider your soul a quirky vending machine, dispensing your genuine character instead of candy.

If you have a stock of kindness, generosity, and respect, congratulations! You’ll be radiating positive vibes.

However, if your vending machine is filled with stale anger and resentment, no shiny exterior can mask the unpleasantness within. People—especially women—will see through your façade and disappear quickly.

It’s time to replenish your soul’s vending machine with fresh, positive attributes.

When you embrace authenticity, you become a beacon of light and sanity. It’s akin to a vending machine that offers free samples, attracting those who wish to share in your confidence and positive energy.

As your social network grows, you’ll be pleasantly surprised by the diverse individuals and opportunities that arise. However, establishing healthy boundaries is crucial to maintaining balance and prioritizing your well-being—more on that later.

The Myth of “Fake It Till You Make It”

The facade, however, will never truly succeed.

The “fake it till you make it” philosophy is misleading and can hinder genuine growth. While it might be tempting to pretend to be someone you’re not, true confidence arises from inner strength and authenticity.

Authenticity comes from genuine actions, not mere pretense.

Choosing integrity over deceit is vital for developing real character.

Respect is powerfully attractive.

Women prefer a man who is confident and respectful, not a womanizer. True confidence is built through real experiences.

You are in control of your actions. While your environment may be beyond your influence, how you respond to each situation is entirely up to you.

How you treat women reflects how you treat your mother, sisters, or daughters.

Note: Some mothers may not be nurturing. Many women lack positive examples and perpetuate cycles of abuse. You are crucial to breaking this cycle.

Change begins with you—only you can transform your circumstances and your reactions to challenges.

A man who is loyal, protective, and committed to fairness will attract potential partners more than an angry, entitled individual who resents competition.

Supporting women fosters stronger men, families, and communities.

We are all interconnected and rely on one another. It’s a mutually beneficial situation—you’ll emerge on the better side.

The only true losers are the corporate entities aiming to keep us divided, distracted, and angry.

The world requires leaders who demonstrate empathy, strength, and wise judgment while prioritizing truth-seeking and rule of law.

Women, LGBTQ+ individuals, and people of color are not your adversaries.

Right-wing media manipulates your emotions, redirecting your anger towards anyone except themselves. They want you to think the real problems lie with others while profiting from a toxic narrative that perpetuates male entitlement and isolation.

Don’t allow them to mislead you; it’s time to question their motives and pursue the truth.

This is the Russian tactic for creating mindless soldiers for their actual conflicts.

Your True Adversaries are the Manipulators

When you find yourself the target of such intense media manipulation, it can be challenging to see through the smoke that threatens to engulf your community.

If the right-wing media’s intent were merely financial, they wouldn’t resort to deception to hide their true motives. The political manipulation aimed at weakening you is not on your side—they’re using you for their agenda, rendering you isolated and disposable.

• They defunded the agency responsible for protecting us against propaganda.
• A smear campaign targeted the leader of the anti-propaganda division within the DHS.
• A cycle of anger-driven men creates a loop where women grow more liberal as men become more conservative.
• The more isolated and angry their audience, the easier they can manipulate you.

Coming together is the first step towards saving yourself, democracy, and our planet.

You are essential to safeguarding democracy—together, we can reshape the future!

Part Two: Coming soon!

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