Chapter 1: The Challenge of Writing

Writing is undeniably a tough endeavor. Most of us can attest to that fact. So, why do some writers make the process even more stressful by measuring their work against others? This perplexes me. During my college years, I encountered numerous individuals who would pit their writing against the talents of renowned authors. It raised a couple of questions in my mind: Why do you seem so self-important? Why does your voice come off as so desperate for validation? It almost feels like you’re pleading for attention.

My heart goes out to those writers. I recall a story about a college student who confronted his instructor for allegedly criticizing his work. In reality, the professor was simply offering constructive feedback—something the student was evidently unwilling to accept.

It's baffling how some individuals reach such a point in their writing journey. Writing is inherently challenging, and we all face hurdles in the beginning. I, too, struggled as a novice writer during my early college days. I still believe my writing requires improvement; I am not yet where I aspire to be. That’s why I continue to practice on platforms like Medium and write stories during my spare time to hone my skills.

Am I making progress? It’s hard to say. But at the very least, I’m putting in the effort. I don’t boast to strangers about my writing prowess, nor do I compare myself to literary giants like Stephen King or Neil Gaiman—although I aspire to reach their heights someday, perhaps by penning a horror novel or comic!

I've met individuals who seem to have inflated views of their writing capabilities. It wouldn’t surprise me if their aspirations clouded their judgment, leading them to believe they are the best writers out there. When confronted with criticism, they react with anger or hostility, even going so far as to disparage others' work.

It makes me wonder if their friends or family ever tried to temper their lofty dreams of becoming a writer. The reality is that excelling in writing takes time and effort. It’s not a simple endeavor, nor is it an easy ride. Achieving success is inherently difficult, which is precisely what makes it rewarding. Our challenges ultimately contribute to our accomplishments, and that satisfaction is truly fulfilling.

So, if you take away anything from my musings on this topic, let it be this: AVOID COMPARING YOURSELF TO OTHER WRITERS! Embrace your personal journey and growth.

Thank you for taking the time to read this!

Emy Quinn

Section 1.1: The Importance of Individuality in Writing

Writing is a deeply personal experience, and each writer’s journey is unique. Embracing this individuality allows for authentic expression.

Subsection 1.1.1: Overcoming the Comparison Trap

Chapter 2: The Impact of Comparison

This video discusses how to stop comparing yourself to other writers and emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance and growth.

In this video, learn how to stop comparing yourself to other writers and discover ways to feel better about your unique writing journey.